Two days ago I came back from our Superhero week of 4-H camp. I had a BLAST! It was my first experience with 4-H camp, lasting from Monday through Friday. Growing up I attended a similar horseback riding camp, Triple R Ranch. The chanting, singing, campfires, and relay races were not new to me, however being a adult leader was. God bless staff members of 4-H camps, I do not know how they keep up their enthusiasm all summer! They give up their time for low pay, terrible food, and being energetic for kids who may or may not be into the camp experience. Each day consisted of flag raising/lowering, meals and snack times, recreation and swimming time, three classes, a dance or movie, and campfire. There were four cabin colors (yellow, blue, green, and red) with boys and girls cabins on either side of the camp. I stayed in the yellow cabin with 27 middle school girls, adult leader Amy, and two teen leaders. At night the leaders had to make sure the campers got showers and went to bed at a 11pm, and in the mornings we would get up around 6:30am to wake up girls who wanted showers before breakfast at 7:45am. We also had the girls clean the cabin in the morning, which the staff would score during breakfast. By the end of the third day I was so burned out. The last two days I kept my energy up by relaxing a little bit and sitting around watching the kids rather than running around with them.
Over all, the campers were great. I did have a couple incidents with girls in my cabin, but they weren’t too bad. At the last dance I had to break up a fight with the help of fellow adult leader Cora. They were not fist fighting, but yelling over some boy, typical. We split them up and didn’t have any other problems. On the third night one of our girls showed us her sheets, which had cuts in them. Pretty scary. Since it was so late, we decided to take care of it in the morning. Me and the other three counselors in the cabin gathered the girls and Amy, the other adult leader, showed them the sheet. She asked that anyone who knew about it or performed the act to step forward. She explained how inappropriate the action was. Of course, no one stepped forward. After that we didn’t have any other issues. The problem with the situation was that we did not see the act happen, and could not conclude that it actually happened at camp. The cuts looked frayed and the campers do not generally have anything to cut with. So unfortunately in some situations we cannot come to a solid conclusion.
I was pretty proud of the yellow cabin campers. Before each meal all campers were gathered in an outdoor hall to sing some songs and say grace, then each cabin color took turns going to the dining hall. The staff had us perform little contests to determine the order in which each cabin went. And our yellow cabin, boys and girls together, definitely won most of those competitions. We also were the first cabin to win the spirit stick, which is a large stick that is passed around to each cabin throughout the week to all the cabins to encourage good behavior and enthusiasm. The spirit stick would be painted the color of whatever cabin it was given to in sections, and subsequently was given to the most outstanding teen leader at the end of the week. I also had quite a few girls who were so helpful, always helping out when we needed to clean the cabin in the morning.
I had a lot of fun interacting with the kids. During recreation time it was so funny to watch the girls play tether ball, they are so short they can barely reach the ball! They got so into it and would react every time the ball switched direction. While in the pool the kids would go crazy over splash fights and one girl could’ve spent all day with me throwing a dive stick. Wednesday and Thursday were very hot, so the staff brought out water guns and a misting tent. The water gun fight was great, the kids, staff, and counselors got into it. When I saw campers sitting by themselves I would sit with them and talk or invite them to play a game. In most cases the camper was tired and resting. I felt so sad for one camper. When I asked if she was enjoying camp and would come again next year she said yes she liked camp, but she probably would not be back. She continued to explain that her parents do not support her in extracurricular activities and had told her this would be her only chance to go to camp. Camp is such a wonderful experience for the kids, so hearing this was hard. Camp gives them a chance to be more independent, make new friends, and it fosters leadership, learning, and respect. I also found that it is a place where kids who are generally not accepted in school get the chance to enjoy themselves without being so taunted. It is also a place where shy kids build confidence in themselves, which is truly special.
Another reason why camp was enjoyable is that all the staff and leaders got along so well. We would split up tasks and worked together. At some points the teens would gather, having social time when they should have been watching the kids, but the adult leaders would send them back to their campers. Along with adult and teen leaders, there were counselors in training (CITs). When a child is too old to be a camper, just starting high school, they come to camp as a CIT to learn how to be a teen leader. One CIT was having a lot of trouble making the distinction between leading and being a camper. Because of the way he acted, trying to participate in some things the way a camper would, the campers did not view him as a leader and did not listen to him. He was getting a little flirty with the girls as well, a HUGE no no. At one point I found his name tag around one girls neck and his schedule with another. Needless to say, I gave them to a staff member who gave him a talking to. Leaders must always have their name tag, schedule, and walkie talkie at all times. Generally, when any of those objects is found and given to staff they are made to do something embarrassing in front of the kids to get it back. I left my name tag at the pool one day, and they had me act out meiosis, so funny.
I played a few roles during camp as counselor, teacher, and carnie. I say carnie because I helped make the nighttime snacks, and can now run a carnival stand. I worked cotton candy, sno cone, and popcorn machines. My favorite was the cotton candy, it was like a race trying to keep up with the spinning sugar. Popcorn was the worst, it was so messy. During class time I helped out with Outdoor Treasures, a class that taught appreciation for the natural world, which is right up my ally. One of the staff members led the course. We dissected owl pellets, caught frogs, crawdads, and tadpoles at a creek, caught bugs in the woods, and worked GPSs to find a geocache. On the last night we took the kids on a night hike as well. On the second day I got to give my acid rain lesson. Of course, I ended up forgetting my notes at home but luckily I remembered enough to do the activity. I had the kids drop water, and then vinegar on the chalk and afterwards allowed them to play around with the materials. I asked a couple of the campers at the end of the week what they enjoyed the most about Outdoor Treasures, and one said her favorite activity was my acid rain lesson!
Along with the kids, I learned a lot last week. It was hard to keep up with the schedule with so much going on. I noticed that at times the staff members were just as confused. And if they weren’t confused, they had to be flexible in the activities they ran. For example, at the talent show Thursday night the staff member running the show had to gauge when to end a kids talent, because some of them probably could have kept dancing all night if we let them. Also, the relay races Tuesday night did not all happen because we ran out of time and they did not follow the original plan given by the schedule. When teaching and running a program we sometimes fly by the seat of our pants, altering things by the second. I’ve discovered that 70% of what makes a presentation good is being confident and acting like you know what you’re doing even if you don’t. We’ve got to be flexible and display an air of certainty to be good leaders and educators. It seems to go that way with almost any job we’ll ever perform.